Community standards
Curious, kind, discreet.
These standards keep our community a place where women — and everyone — can explore safely. Breaking them may lead to warnings, restrictions or removal.
Consent is ongoing
- Every step forward — a message, a photo, an invitation — needs a fresh yes. A past yes is not a future yes.
- “No”, silence, an unmatch or a block is a complete answer. Don't ask again through another account, circle or person.
- Never share someone's photos, messages or identity outside the app. Screenshots of private content shared without consent will lead to removal.
Nobody can be bought
- No purchase, gift, membership tier or prior interaction entitles anyone to attention, contact or consent.
- No paid access to a person, compensated dating, “arrangements”, allowances or solicitation of any kind.
- Don't ask members for money, gifts, investments or financial details. Report anyone who does.
Be who you say you are
- One person, one account. Couples link two individual accounts.
- Use your own recent photos. No impersonation, catfishing or misleading verification.
- Everyone here must be 18 or over. We act immediately on any sign of underage access.
Respect the room
- Match the tone someone has chosen. Read their pace and boundaries before you write.
- No unsolicited explicit media. Media in chat may need approval — respect it.
- Hosts: be clear about what a gathering is and isn't. Guests: follow the host's notes and leave when asked.
Keep it discreet
- What's shared in a circle stays in the circle.
- Don't reveal event locations, member identities or personal details to anyone outside the app.
See something that doesn’t feel right? Report it from any profile, chat, circle or gathering — reporting is confidential and always free.