How it works
Every step is your choice.
We built the experience around one idea: nothing moves forward unless you want it to. Here's what that looks like in practice.
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Join & age check
Enter your email and we send a short-lived code, with no passwords to leak or reuse. Confirm you're 18 or over, agree to our terms, and pass a quick age check. We never display your date of birth. Full verification is optional. It shows your verified badge and unlocks hosting events, digital meet-ups, gifts and surprises.
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Meet the app & invite your partner
A short welcome tour shows you around and how your privacy controls work. If you're part of a couple, invite your partner to link accounts. It's optional, and each of you keeps your own sign-in, answers and choices.
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Swipe your first desire cards
We explain how your private deck works: Not for me, Curious, I like this or Skip. Then you react to your first three. There's nothing to write, and your answers stay private unless you both choose to reveal a shared spark.
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Start connecting
Go straight to meeting members. Complete the rest of your profile at your own pace. Every photo, interest and line of your bio has its own visibility setting.
Once you’re in
Nothing moves forward unless you want it to.
Set your boundaries
Choose who can express interest (everyone, verified members only, women only, women and couples, or no one), whether you only want to see verified members, whether you prefer to speak first, and whether media in chat needs your approval.
Discover with a reason why
Suggestions respect everyone's preferences and boundaries first, then rank on what you actually share — intentions, interests, pace. Each comes with a short, honest explanation.
Match only when it's mutual
Interest is private until it's returned. A match is an invitation, not an obligation — you can unmatch at any time, and your shared details go with it.
Find a Secret Spark
When you and a connection have both chosen the same desire card, and both allowed it to be revealed, you'll see it together as a Shared Spark. Every other answer stays private, and nobody is ever told about a no. A spark is an invitation to talk, never permission.
Share more when it feels right
Private photos and interests unlock only when you both agree. Either of you can take it back, and we keep a clear history of what you've consented to.
For couples
Just us. A private space for two.
Two accounts, two voices
Each partner signs in separately, keeps their own settings and verification, and answers desire cards on their own. Neither can browse the other's answers.
Shared Sparks
Only the interests you both choose to reveal appear together. Either of you can take a reveal back, and it disappears straight away.
Play, privately
Gentle to intimate couple games from interests you both allow. Skip, swap or pause any time. No public profile and no discovery unless you both choose it.
Circles & gatherings
Beyond one-to-one.
Private circles
Small, host-led groups of like-minded members. Hosts approve who joins, and nobody is added to a circle without accepting an invitation first. Hidden circles never appear in search.
Hosted gatherings
Hosts share the area and the vibe up front. The exact address is encrypted and revealed only to approved guests, a few hours before the gathering begins.
Couples, together and apart
Couples link two individual accounts. Each partner keeps their own consent, and either can pause the joint profile at any time.
Gestures, not payments
When gifting launches, it will be optional, only between matched members who have chosen to receive gifts, and it will never unlock anything. No cash changes hands between members.
Ready when you are.
We’re opening gradually, city by city, to keep the community small, kind and verified.
Request an invite