Questions, answered.

Curious, open-minded adults — singles, couples and friends — who want to meet people and create real experiences. It's designed women-first: the controls, the tone and the pace are built around women feeling safe and in charge. Everyone who respects that is welcome.

Practical controls, not slogans. Women (and anyone who wants them) can choose who is allowed to express interest, whether only they can start a conversation after a match, whether media in chat needs approval, and whether photos stay softly blurred until a match. The defaults for women start on the protective side.

An age check is required to join, because this is an adults-only community. Full verification is optional. It shows your verified badge and unlocks hosting events, digital meet-ups, gifts and surprises. You can also choose to meet verified members only. We never display your date of birth.

No. You sign in with a one-time code sent to your email. It's quicker, and there's no password to be leaked or reused.

You decide, item by item: everyone, only matches, only people you've both agreed to share with, or just you. You can change your mind at any time.

Not unless it's mutual. Interest stays private until it's returned, and you'll only ever be shown to people whose preferences and boundaries you fit.

Yes. Your reactions to desire cards are private by default and are only used to shape your own suggestions. Nobody sees them unless you both choose the same card and both allow it to be revealed, which is a Secret Spark. You can review, edit or delete what your answers suggest about you at any time, or turn card-based suggestions off entirely.

Just us is a private space for couples. You link your two individual accounts, answer desire cards separately, see only the Shared Sparks you both choose to reveal, and play couple games together. There's no public profile, and you won't appear in discovery unless you both decide to go social.

No. A swipe is a private signal about what might interest you, and a Spark is an invitation to talk. Neither is ever consent to any activity. Every game prompt and every surprise idea has its own yes, later or no thanks, and you can skip, pause or stop at any time without explanation.

It's instant and total: no more messages, profile views, invitations, calls or suggestions — in either direction. They aren't notified.

Not yet. If and when it launches, gifts will be optional gestures, only between matched members who've chosen to receive them. Gifts never unlock anything, and members can't send each other cash.

Group calls are planned for later. When they arrive, they'll be opt-in, show everyone present, let anyone leave instantly, and won't be recorded.

From Profile → Safety & Privacy in the app. Deletion is free, immediate and signs you out everywhere.